Feminine

bs tv shows

Femiran — Sun, 20 Jun 2010 20:48:21 +0000

I can’t believe that TV shows and programs in US are this much family oriented, sexist, and anti-feminist. The whole point of most of movies is to fall in love, to get married and “live happily ever after” (it seems that there is not any happiness in the life of a single woman.) The TV ads are mainly “gender based,” in most of the them, on the house cleaning supplies, there is a woman doing house-chores, I haven’t seen any ads in the opposite. In general, watching TV, here and probably everywhere, is totally wasting time and to fill one’s mind with bs sexism.

Which one was a “quake”?

Femiran — Wed, 05 May 2010 03:35:03 +0000

Brainquake or Boobquake were not actually the quakes that shook Iranian bloggers’ sphere last week, but it was Shadi Sadr’s article on “What is the difference between Iranian men and Tehran’s Imam Jom’e (Sedighi)” that did so. Shadi Sadr in this article criticizes “all” Iranian men harshly and claims that committing “verbal harassment” is part of the process of becoming a man in Iran. She accuses Iranian men, especially women’s rights and human rights activist men,of not being very different from Sedighi and that they share the same sexist opinion but at least Sedighi is more honest to mention it.

Shadi Sadr’s article faced an outrage by the male bloggers and around 100 blog’s posts were published in response to her article, mostly by angry men that believe Sadr has insulted them. A few of Iranian female bloggers also criticize her language but believe that her main point (verbal/sexual harassment) has been marginalized by the angry men.

At the end of the day, it was proved that a provocative language of an article would raise a thunder of debates and arguments but it might be at the expense of the writer’s credibility and reputation.

Re-reading Nawal El Sadaawi

Femiran — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 16:31:15 +0000

I read the Hidden Face of Eve as the Naked Face of the Arab Woman when I was a teenager in the mid-90’s (It was translated to Persian only once in 1981 with a foreword by Nawal El Saadawi to her “Iranian sisters,” where he praised their struggle against Imperialism). Reading it once again in English did not bring me the same feelings of shock and fear that I experienced years ago. Although by reading her story of circumcision some of the old emotions awaked in me, the rest of the book was the repetition of the “facts” that I have heard thousand of times since then. There was not any thing new or impressive for me this time as it was in those years. This time I am afraid to say that I was bored.

My birthday

Femiran — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 17:08:33 +0000

On January, 1979, my family was celebrating two occasions simultaneously : Shah’s escaping Iran and my first birthday anniversary. Albeit, I should add that they aren’t celebrating the first one any more. It doesn’t mean that they’re unhappy of 1979 Iranian Revolution, which overthrew a despotic regime, but they aren’t satisfied by what happened afterwards; the rise of an Islamic Republic.

Wrong and right images

Femiran — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 03:24:53 +0000

There is a lot to say about what’s happening in my country nowadays. I am still very confused by the post-elecion crisis which is now entering its seventh month.

The world is astonished by the presence of Iranian women in the frontline of the struggle. I believe that large part of such surprise is because of the pervasive wrong images of Iranian/Middle Eastern/Muslim women among the Westerners. The stereotypical pictures which depicts these women rarely present in public sphere let alone being in the frontline of a political struggle.

But as the history has illustrated, Iranian women have been part of the major political resistances since the beginning of the twentieth century .They participated in 1906 Constitutional Revolution besides their male counterparts. And, later on in 1979 Revolution, which overthrew the despotic regime of Mohammad Reza Shah, they showed their bravery once again. Albeit, the Islamic government in its first step toward the Islamization of the country denied their basic rights and inflicted hejab on their bodies.

During the last thirty years, women were struggling in favor of their cause severely. They have faced imprisonment, torture, and death during their struggles, but still there are very active in their path to reach democracy. Although, it is hard to tell that the current movement in Iran has any feminist/women’s rights demands, the reality is that their role in it cannot be ignored.

All the president’s women: Women in Ahmadinejad’s cabinet

Leila — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 21:33:52 +0000

Ahmadinejad has nominated two women as new ministers for the health, and the welfare and social security: Fatemeh Ajorlou and Marzieh Vahid Dastjerdi. Both of them are members of conservative front in the parliament as well as the supporters of Ahmadinejad. There were among those hard-liners who spoke, last year, in favor of Ahmadinejad’s family law bill which was going to make it easier for men to marry second wife. They have been defending gender segregation in public sphere such as universities, public transportations, parks, and etc. They believe women’s first priority dutis are to serve their husbands and to raise children. However one could ask them what they are doing in politics instead of committing their “priorities.”

After all the mess Ahmadinejad made by his fraud election, it seems that he has decided, once again, to pose a popular gesture by introducing two women for his cabinet. He might think that the hard pressure on women’s rights activists in the first term of his presidency, and the brutality the activists faced in post-election period can be forgotten with such a show off.

It worths to mention that these two women have not peresented any kind of differences with misogynous hardliner men in the way they think and talk about women’s issues and women’s status in the society. Ahmadinjad has chosen them to show that he is the first president in the Islamic Republic who dared to introduce women as the ministers, in addition to have someones in his cabinet that assure him they will not object any of his decisions. Ahmadinejad knows that these two women back any of his anti-women bills as they did for his family law bill; the bill that Iranian women’s rights activists could stop its ratification in the parliament.

Albeit, some might argue that the presence of women in Ahamdinejad’s cabinet would be positive in the way that it will make it easier for the future presidents to have women as the ministers in their state, the women that hopefully might be committed to women’s rights and welfare.

it is back

Leila — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 18:49:53 +0000

After a hard try and with the help of my bro, this weblog is back. Lets see if I can update it regularly.

Women and post-election crisis in Iran

Leila — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 18:34:18 +0000

These are my recent articles relevant to women’s presence in post-election crisis in Iran:

Iranian Women in the Frontline: My martyr sister, I will get your vote back

Another Senseless Arrest

Iran’s Sadr Released, More Freedom Must Follow

Iranian bloggers’ statement about the Presidential elections and the subsequent events

Femiran — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 19:44:14 +0000

Statement by a group of Iranian bloggers about the Presidential elections and the subsequent events
1) We, a group of Iranian bloggers, strongly condemn the violent and repressive confrontation of Iranian government against Iranian people’s legitimate and peaceful demonstrations and ask government officials to comply with Article 27 of the Islamic Republic of Iran’s Constitution which emphasizes “Public gatherings and marches may be freely held, provided arms are not carried and that they are not detrimental to the fundamental principles of Islam.”

2) We consider the violations in the presidential elections, and their sad consequences a big blow to the democratic principles of the Islamic Republic regime, and observing the mounting evidence of fraud presented by the candidates and others, we believe that election fraud is obvious and we ask for a new election.

3) Actions such as deporting foreign reporters, arresting local journalists, censorship of the news and misrepresenting the facts, cutting off the SMS network and filtering of the internet cannot silence the voices of Iranian people as no darkness and suffocation can go on forever. We invite the Iranian government to honest and friendly interaction with its people and we hope to witness the narrowing of the huge gap between people and the government.

A part of the large community of Iranian bloggers
June 26, 2009

(mis)represention of Iranian women

Femiran — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 20:58:27 +0000

Every day I come across various books,articles,documentaries about Iranian women and Iranian young girls. Mostly written and produced by the foreigners or second generation Iranians who’ve just visited Iran and have not had the chance to live there. Some of the them are really superficial and could not figure out what really is happening in depth of the society. There are plenty of generalizations, mostly according to the experiences and life styles of the a small group of Iranian society.
They are representing us (Iranian women and youngsters), in some cases, very different of what we really are. Since they are master in language, they have more chance to be in the position of representing.

What bothers me is that I really could not find myself through these works.